Photo by Simone Pellegrini on Unsplash I’ll start with a hint: Truly successful men have a life. They don’t go out to bars four times a week and then jerk off at the gym for the rest. In the past ten years, I’ve met all sorts of guys. “Geeks”, “weirdos”, guys who grew up with abundance and wealth around them, guys who want to get laid and “nothing...

Photo by Simone Pellegrini, edited by me A surge of energy went from my groans up through my spine, all the way to the head. I felt somewhat relaxed. Like I just had an orgasm. I thought, “this thing works.” Another three days passed by. And then a couple more. I felt like I could almost blow up with energy. Or is it all psychological… Some...

(Photo by Rosario Esposito La Rossa on Unsplash) In three months my life turned upside down. I was a wreck. The loss of my father was too sudden and traumatic. I believed “it’ll pass”. All I needed was time. I’ll go out with friends, travel, start university, and get over it. Sure. Meanwhile, things got worse by the day. Nothing clicked for me. No matter...

It’s Friday night in a bar in Tel-Aviv, and my friend and I are walking around, looking to meet some women. There stands this beautiful Russian girl on the dance floor. She was tall with dark hair, brown eyes, and fine features. HOT. I approached her, we hung out, and after two hours we exchanged phone numbers and separated. Ten minutes later, I got a...

My palms wear sweating. My throat felt dry. Here goes… “AAA Haaai…” Shit, have they even heard me. Another one. “How you doing, guys?” Silence. Awkwardness. Embarrassment mixed with odd-looking facial expressions. That’s basically how my dating life looked from age twenty to twenty-four. I’m almost thirty-one and thank god my dating life looks different now. However, the process I went through is a topic...